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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My life is so rubbish right now :(I have a boyfriend whos been really great to me as I have a few anger and problems but hes stuck with me. The thing thats bothering me is that I always have to make an effort to contact him, I can bet if I didn't try to contact him he wouldn't contact me... I know he loves me but recently we've been arguing.. I really do love him.I have no hobbies and not too many friends, so my boyfriend is all I've got really, and when I can't see him I do nothing and don't go out.I'm only 15 and I'm really depressed with my life. Any ideas on how I can sort out my life? :(Thanks for reading.=(
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): Girl, you are only 15 and have a ton of life ahead of you! Join a sport or club even if your not any good, do it just to make some friends and have a good time. Get involved with some kind of positive group like an outdoors club or youth group or volunteering at the humane society or anything that you are remotley interested in. You've got to get out and experience things in order to find out what you really enjoy and what makes you happy. And you have to be happy with yourself first before you'll be able to truly be happy in your relationship. And don't be suprised if you find out that you're not happy in your current relationship and don't worry. I know its scary, trust me, but go for it.
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma-which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."
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