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male
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30-35,
*stewart
writes:i dated this girl for 4 years on an off. we broke up about a year ago and sine then she has started seeing another guy. she told me that we were done for good and then about a week ago she started calling me and saying that she still loves me and that she is not over me but she does not know if she can get back together with me bc of how our relationship ended in the past. We always to use fight and blame each other for stupid things but i have seen what my life is without her and i need her. i was so immature and stupid and took her for granite last time we dated and being without her for a year has made me realize that she is the best thing to ever happen to me and i would do anything for her. i need her in my life and i need her to know that i am not the same person that i was before, she needs to believe me. She says that shes scared but she still loves me and cares for me and that she does not know if or when we will get back together. She also said that she has to figure stuff out on her own and needs to know that i have changed. The problem with that is i have changed and want to be with her more than anything but theirs only so much i can say to her, i need to show her but she insist on figuring it out for herself. Im at loss of words and i do not know what to do to prove to her that i have changed and that if we date i will do anything and everything make her happy. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): I'm going threw the same thing right now. The thing is that the girl that I am trying to be back with is my Baby Mama. We dated off & on for about 12 years. And we have 3 of the most spoilest children. I love the hell out of her. She is now with someone else. It hurts me to death. I been wanting to kill my selfself for longest. What should I do to win her back. She said that she is tired of hearing the same thing over & over again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): The fact that she's contacting you is a good sign that she's still thinking about you. The best thing you can do is sit back and wait- after all, she is actively in another relationship and it needs to be her decision to break up with this other guy. When she does call you, assure her that you regret the way your relationship ended and wish to give things another shot using your new and improved attitude.
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