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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 16 months broke up with me march 15th we still talk cause we have 9 month old. our relationship wasn't the best. he basically had to do everything like pick were we went what we done. where we ate. doing all the driving like when he wanted me to drive i wouldnt. paying for everything like for the baby. cause i dont have a job. today he came over to see the baby and he said he missed me he hugged me and kissed me and i said well if you miss me why can't we be together again he said cause it would be the same stuff over him having to do everything and me not doing anything. he said like if we was to get back together and live together he would have to do everything like the cooking ect... i really miss him too. how can i show him that i am responsible for a relationship?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 I guess you need to change. It is obvious he still wants to be with you, he just wants you to take some of the responsibility as well and do your fair share of work. Tell him you are willing to change for him and ask him to give you a chance, and if he does make the effort and show him that he is not just there to care for you, that you can look after him as well. Share the house work and the responsibility for the baby. Share bills and treat him now and again as well, show him you care for him and you are not just taking advantage of his good nature.
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