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writes:my gf just broke up with me the other day and said she needed some time along for a while, she says im not convincing when i tell her i trust her, so how can i seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (27 September 2007):
 you can't come across as something you're not and you can't make her see something she can't.
in your heart you may trust her but your head is telling you different and this is what she sees, and if she hsa ended the relationship then it's because she feels it's unfair on both of you.
unfortunately you can't convince her that you trust her, you needed to show her but it would appear (without knowing the facts) that something lead her to believe you didn't.
be yourself and prepare for the worst because that way it'll be easier to come to terms with.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Just be yourself and don't try to overdo the convincing. The more you try the more she'll suspect you're not being truthful!
If she doesn't believe you and still wants to stay 'broke up' I'm afraid you'll just have to shrug your shoulders and walk off. No point banging on a locked door when no-one is home!
Phil
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reader, superbunny +, writes (26 September 2007):
 It's a bit hard to say without hearing more about the situation, honey. x
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reader, Emmajane +, writes (26 September 2007):
 You know, trust is something that can be communicated mentally. If you genuinely trust her she'll know. More importantly, you can't fake trust. If you don't trust her nothing you say will convince her.
Trusting someone, and allowing them to be themselves is the greatest gift, and the greatest demonstration of love you can give. Good luck this weekend
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