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female
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anonymous
writes:Me and my ex have been broken up for ten months after a ten month relationship. He was finalizing his divorce and making sure that it was over with his ex. We are now talking again and i would like to get things back, he is leary.He is coming around more and we get along great. How can i rekindle the love we had? I say he is leary because he is saying he didn't want to be in a relationship but wants to try. He admitted he is confused and he shouldn't have left.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 April 2013):
 He is not saying he WAS confused he's saying he IS confused... still?
I would not rekindle love or a relationship till he's no longer confused.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (12 April 2013):
 HI
I would just stay the way you are at the moment, regardless of how and why he divorced, its will of bound to have had an effect on him. So going straight back into a relationship again would not be wise. I'm guessing he was having an affair with you at the time before then? which could be a part of why he is being a bit leary with you. Just take each day as it comes, dont rush anything, as anything worth keeping needs no rushing! just YOU be cautious though, because if he can cheat on his wife to see you he can do the same with you.......
God Luck
Mandy
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