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writes: I deal with an ex-boyfriend. We have known each other for 5 years, 3 quarter of which we were together while in undergrad. we now go to the grad school (different departments) 5 yrs ago,he mentioned he didnt want to be like his father, who is by all means a nice man, and a "nice" husband, but in my "friend's" parents marraige, things are very insensitive.. not mean.. just sort of blah towards each other.. Like two people who live together and happen to be married. Now, did we stopped talking for quarter yr. during which we had seperate relationships. After that quarter year he declared he wanted to see me graduate (from undergrad, he was 1 year ahead), and we have been "together",(I should mention monogomously and that we aren't "official") ever since. the prob is it seems he is often oblivios to when he hurts my feelings or when he does something "stupid". Once I bring it to his attention, he usually apologizes, but he is still sort of cold and repeats these behaviors. ie he forgot my birthday last month and alomost did not say sorry and this month he left me outside in the cold with a friend waiting for him to give us a ride home... Lately he has referred to himself as "not a sensitive person". What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tim +, writes (22 November 2005):
 looks he is not interested anymore seems very cold to me as well u better off leave him alone if he loves u for sure and for real let him come to u and follow u and hear his own words dont try those who forgets ur birthday and who is cold and has no feeling or any love for u means they r not serious and true and honest lovers = a loser who using ur body rather than caring about ur feeling, ur heart and wot u mean to him and ur love for such a long time.
Good luck
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