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anonymous
writes:I still have feelings for my ex. I call him sometimes and sometimes he calls me. I recently told him that I wanted to see him and he agreed. When I went to see him he acted like it was the first time he had seen me. He stared at me and when I looked up he acted as if he wasn't looking, he sat really close to me and he touched me and hugged me also. He took me out to lunch and overall it was a good day. I haven't heard from him since that day (its only been 2 days). Should I contact him or let him contact me. I really want to see him again and hope to get him back. What do I do to get the ball rolling between us again?
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reader, greenman  +, writes (18 April 2008):
I would wait a week or so and then txt saying something like " hi, fancy doing lunch again " keep it simple. Don't mention how you really enjoyed lunch last time. Keep it slow from there on in. Be upbeat, happy but not desperate when you meet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have been apart 4 10 mos. We broke up because he wanted to hang out and club with his friends, so I started spending time with another guy and he found out about it, then we started hanging again and he said that he wasnt ready for a relationship, so that's what happened.
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reader, greenman +, writes (18 April 2008):
It depends, who ended the relationship and why? how long have you been apart?
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reader, debbiewebby +, writes (18 April 2008):
You will probably find he is being cautious. Men don't rush themselves over making decisions.
If you send too many messages, whether it be answerphone, text messages or e-mail he will back off at a million paces.
If you have his e-mail addy, send him an e card saying thank you for a lovely day then leave it to him to contact you.
It depends on why the relationship failed in the first place too.
If he got hurt he will be extra cautious.
Be patient, if he wants to get back with you he will contact you.
Good luck x
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reader, greenman +, writes (18 April 2008):
Hi,It all depends..who ended the relationship and why? How long have you been apart?
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