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writes:My b/f and I have a lot of problems lately. He said that he couldn't take it anymore because I supposily changed. I think I changed alittle but not a lot. But he don't see me trying. He said that he is only going to give me one last chance. For me to change. I am really trying but I don't know how to show him I am working hard at trying. How can I prove to him I triying and hard? I don't want to loose to him!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Tell him that he is pushing you too hard. Sometimes my husband does this to me when I am trying to work through my PTSD issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): He wants me to change the way I react to things. I disrespect his friends. I don't like them because they constantly flirt with him and that annoys me, he also wants me to change the fact that I have accused him of cheating a few times. That's because he doesn't communicate well and he makes me feel he is hiding something even thought I know he is not but sometimes I'm just not sure. Also he wants to be nice and sweet and adventorous and fun. Now am I'm always down and sad. He barely wants to talk to me over the phone because I always sound depressed. He wants things to be fun and care free like they use to be. But I don't trust him in some aspect and he knows it and that bothers him too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Everyone changes in a relationship its only natural, you get more comfortable with someone. I think if you are trying to change and he cant see that he might be the one at fault, maybe hes changing and would rather pick out you're bad points. I think you should just be yourself jolly and happy and if hes still complaining, maybe you should make the decision of you leaving your relationship on your terms not his..
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (26 July 2009):
 ACTIONS NOT WORDS.
You can tell someone you are trying until you are blue in the face, but words are hollow....what actions are YOU taking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): In order for us to help you, can you be specific about what he is asking you to change about yourself and why?
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