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writes:I am 28 years old with 3 children 2 of them are by my husbands. Me and my husband been married going on 3 years and been dating for 5 years. My problem is I don't want to be married any more and I know I don't want to be married. I love the family life and my kids but I am not in love with the man I married (and no there is not another man involved) I am just not attracted to him any more, I don't really want to do anything with him any more. We don't have any fun together and all we do is argure when we try to talk about our problems. I just feel like I can be unhappy on my own. I went to the doctor a month ago and my doctor put me on some low dosage depressions pills and I know why I am stressing, it's because of him. I try to talk to him about how I am feeling but he won't listen. I am really praying and doing a lot of soul searching to decide if this is how I want to live the rest of my life.... should I stay or leave or just give me some advice on how I can pick my spirits back up and be a happy wife, mother, and person Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): I'm so sorry. I'm going through the same thing.We don't have any children or nothing but when i try to express how i feel, its not clickin to him.It hurts so much cause im tryin my best to try to make it work.He is constantly upset about his job and he brings it to our marriage.I don't know what to tell you to do because i'm headed down the same road as you.I just wish you the best.I would def pray for your marriage and mines..Take care.
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reader, Loveatfirstsight +, writes (7 December 2008):
Has he changed since you've been married with him? Acting differently or not paying enough attention to you? What caused you to not be happy besides the arguing?
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