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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: we recently got a new teacher to our school, he's young around 23/24 and I'm 18. He doesn't take any of my classes but I really like him. When I'm in the corridor he always smiles and 'gives me the eye', even my best friend whom I never mentioned him to noticed! Anyway I had to help out at disco run for younger children in my school and he helped me chose the music, I was trying to pick up to date and popular ones that everyone would know but he was flicking through the iPod and said ow do you remember this its from our time, he flirted with me a lot! I do like him, any advice? I mean he's not really my teacher and I'm 18 , how can I move this along? Or do you think this is wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): just wait.
you're going to ruin his career, wait till you graduate before saying or doing anything.
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female
reader, Dayzee +, writes (16 March 2013):
You will get him fired from your school and possibly destroy his career if he is stupid enough to pursue anything with you. It's a career breaker for him.
You're at an age where you're always going to be in love with someone, so choose someone else. You'll be surprised how fickle your heart will be. Move on and leave this guy alone.
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 March 2013):
I guess you have decided that your crush is more important than his career? How about you wait a year or two and then see if you still feel the same way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): I see you helping him to lose his job.
Your school has policies regarding students and teachers. He has no choice but to follow them.
I have a suggestion. Ask your parents what you should do.
Good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 March 2013):
he's a teacher at a school where you are a student correct?
in that case it's WRONG and I would not even attempt to move it along.
I was 17 when I had a crush on my 23 year old teacher..... this too shall pass. mine did although 35 years later I can still remember him clear as a bell.
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