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writes:I was in an abusive relationship for 7 yrs both physical and emotional and I've been trying to date new men objectively but I'm unable to be phsyically/sexually comfortable with them. I take medications and I have counseling but I don't have a love life. What kind of other treatment or support should I seek?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 It sounds like you are getting a lot of support you just need to carry on with that. You need to build your confidence and self esteem up as you would have had all that shattered in the abusive relationship. If you arent ready in you mind then you will be putting all the emotions into a new relationship and you won't be fulfilled in that. You should be proud of yourself that you got away from the abuse as it takes a lot of strength to break the cycle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): you need to try to let go of your past, you didnt deserve that.you start letting go by seeing other people, being on yourown will only make you wallow in your past, try praying to God too it helps alot, even if you dont belive just talki to him. Actually what you need is someone you can pour your heart to and who would stand by you, no man is perfect leave an open mind
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