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writes:My gf has recently dumped me, i reali loved her.. but theres no point going back, trying to get bak is only straining things further, Ill stay friends with her because before we started dating, there was a strong foundation in commonality in personality.How do i move on with making myself feel better, im quite short 5'7. and I guess, girls think im good looking, but i never seem to attract them like crazy. I guess i dont go out much anyway. Im a nerd as well..What are the best ways to feel better about oneself?What should i do?Gym? Write that bok thats been sitting in my head for a while? Get into something i enjoy or hope i can achieve something great? And also what can i do appearance wise?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): I don't believe we can go back! Once you cross the line from friends to lovers there is no going back!
It is unfortunate but true.
Work on yourself....Put yourself first! Put all your priorities first!
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reader, Nicolhoney +, writes (4 July 2009):
I'm going through a breakup myself and going to gym to work out helps me feel better for sure. It's also a great way for you to meet new people there , so u can expand your social circle and maybe even find a girl you might like. Also, selfhelp books seem to help me get through it and you find a book that fits you whether it is how to get over a breakup or simply just about how to feel better about yourself. Also, try getting yourself out there like go to the mall by yourself and try to strike up a conversation with people you might like. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): It's good that you're doing things to keep yourself occupied from the break up and taking your mind off her.
To move on effectively, it's best if you're on your own til you're completely over her. If you got into a rebound, things won't turn out so good.
With being friends with her, I'd be careful with that, because from recently being boyfriend/girlfriend it can be difficult to adjust to being friends and moving on maybe harder to do so. So make closure for some time, don't contact her and avoid seeing her.
What could you do appearance wise?
Get a haircut, go for the hair style you've always wanted
Shop for new clothes and go for a different style maybe
By focusing on YOU, you'll feel better about yourself and you're focusing the time on yourself and what you want.
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