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writes: What is a good way to meet more guys (aged 14-15/16)other than joining clubs? And once you've spotted one you like....then what?!Please help! i want to meet someone special to take away the pain from having to watch my closest male mate with his girlfriend.x x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): u shud not look for love it will find u
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reader, Mr. Buddy +, writes (19 April 2006):
ooo man I am sorry I didnt know you went to an all girls school... well then id have to say a sports park,skateing rink, or cinema.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006): Hello, there are a few websites for teens like www.espinthebottle.com, you just have to be careful on it. People can always lie etc..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would try the school idea...except I go to an all girls school lol.
But thank you all for the ideas x x x
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reader, Mr. Buddy +, writes (18 April 2006):
there's plenty of time in your life but i would suggest SCHOOL I mean what place has more boys than there? seriously go up to random guys that look nice and start hanging out with them if you make some more male friends they introduce you to there friends and there friends to there friends that way you meet alot of differnt guys now all you gotta do is cherry pick for the ones you want =)
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reader, eï? Sophie eï? +, writes (17 April 2006):
 well, well, well...there r many places 2 meet boys, how bout the local cinema, plenty of boys usually hang around there, local swimming pool, parks; genually were teenagers hang around. Remember theres no rush for a b/f yet you have plenty of time, but it seems like you just want one, as you may have feelings for your friend. Maybe you think that if you had a b/f or met some guy it might take your mind off your friend and his girlfriend?!?!?! Anyways honey...good luck for hunting down them boys and i hope you find a nice 1 too! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah i do still like him but i know he doesnt feel the same way as he wrote me a really sweet letter saying he values our friendship too much. He still acts as though he may like me though but im not holding onto it.
I only want him to be happy and if he's happy with the girlfriend he is with now then i'm glad for him.
I'm doubting very much that the dream of mine to be with him will ever come true...i've lost all hope.
Thank you for replying x x x
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (16 April 2006):
At school, in the park, at the fun fair, through other mates, shopping in town on a Saturday, at a pop concert, in a choir, at church, at the swimming pool.....
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reader, bridget +, writes (16 April 2006):
 Hey there anon
I hope that I am able to assist you..
I think the best way to meet people around that age gap is usually at pubs or the clubs.. It really depends on what type you are looking for..
From reaading your question though it nudged me that maybe you had or still have feelings for your closest male mate and now that he has a girlfriend it has come between the both of you..
I might be wrong but just that you mentioned that at the end there..
I think that you should just keep mon communication terms with the male friend as it will help you knowing that you still have him as a friend..
I can say though that from experience in a similiar situation that even if you do find someone special your age it will not be the same if you have feelings for your male mate..
Keep In Touch Please..
Jacqueline
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reader, cam  +, writes (16 April 2006):
 hey i'm a 17 year old guy if you want to meet someone then just get out there it's not like we hide away there will be lots of blokes that will want to meet you it's hard to anser this question without knowing where you live city/country but there are about 3 billion of us so. anyway once you meet a guy get to know him if u'r interested then tell them how you feel honesty is the best way. dont spend too much time getting to know the person although it is important because it's difficult going out with close freinds
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