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writes:I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guy's attention? Is there a way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behaviour? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attraction for a girl after hanging out with her? (like initially you didn't consider her attractive but later did).Do average girls just have to be patient and wait for a guy to get to know her personality before he will develop a dating interest? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2016): If you are just and everyday looking person, it's all about how you present yourself. Virtually anyone can make themselves up and look good. Most movie atars and models are decidedly average looking once they wash the crap off their faces.And personality is a huge factor as well. If you have an entertaining and engaging personality, people will latch onto that because looks fade, but a gorgeous personality stays forever.So just be yourself, the happiest and best version of yourself you can be and it won't take long before someone takes a bite.And fyi... guys, for the most part, are much less picky when it comes to looks. As long as you have whatever they might be looking for in a person... every man is different in what they want, really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2016): Wash regularly and smell nice, wear things that flatter your figure (get family/friends opinions). But what is most attractive is a cultivated mind so be well read and take up a hobby. Just do some interesting stuff and that will make you interesting to others. Smile often. Relax. Good manners.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (16 October 2016):
 Relationships based on personality, as cliché as it sounds, are deeper than those reliant on looks. Focus on being yourself and feeling good as you are. Confidence in yourself will help. If you like a certain make-up look or hairstyle, do that, but do it for yourself.
The more you focus on what men want, the less you'll focus on what you want and who you are. Don't let yourself put men's wants above yours because you'll end up worse for it. Everyone has to put themselves first, not change themselves to attract a partner.
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