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male
age
26-29,
*ohamed Tapozada
writes:There is this girl my cousin wanted me to be in a relationship with her.She's cute and nice with me but i am just not into her or have strong emotions for her but i don't want to act like a heartless bastard.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2012): just say,"you're too good for me.You deserve someone better"
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female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 "You are a lovely person and I know you will find a wonderful guy to date. It's just not going to be me. I do wish you every happiness." Keep it short and sweet, don't offer details, be perfectly polite and don't offer hope of a relationship if something changes.
"The chemistry just isn't there for me." if you are pushed for more explanation.
"I just don't see us dating." if you are further pushed.
Then politely end the conversation and move on.
Smile, don't make odd faces, don't disparage her to other people, don't mock or ridicule her. Be a perfect gentleman, and you won't be considered a heartless person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2012): Just be honest. You can't help what you do or don't feel and that doesn't make you a bad person.
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