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writes:I am a attractive and slender, dark hair, dark eyes with a sophisticated air woman.. I get compliments often of my looks. Usually men who are old enough to be my dad or uncle.. but mostly from the outspoken African American Males. All I seem to get from the Causcasian Males are just looks and smiles.. I have put myself out there and even made the first move. Yet at 26 years old I am still single.. most men say I have it all! Then why am I still alone.. Do they assume that I am already taken? I strongly do not believe that the caucasian men are intimidated by my looks? there are lots of girls out there that have the whole porn star look and they are taken. What gives? I never asked for such a lonely life.. Beautiful Girls need loving too!
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reader, Kuma +, writes (11 January 2009):
Just find some guy friends to hang out with at the club or other activities. As other guys see you with your guy friends they will know you are approachable and it will start to show their interest.
Believe me if you are like your description they are all interested but probably feel you are out of their league.
Give time and stay real the man you want will find you.
Kuma
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I think just be more friendly with them just say "hi with a smile" and I bet you'd be asked out in a flash. Men love women with personality though top looking women can be renowned for being snobish and rude (not saying you are, it's the minority that ruin it for ones like you), mabey these guys aren't sure how to take you. So yeah just put in more personality and that's the trick looks are only part of the game. Be cheeky, fun, intelligent and placid. Thats hot!!!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 January 2009):
 You are absolutely correct that most Caucasian males will be somewhat intimidated by a strikingly beautiful woman. We always figure that our chances are slim to none. Good guys hate being rejected, and that is what we typically figure will occur. Even when my luck was good, at a much younger age, the pretty girls who got to me were quite forward. Guess I was kind of shy back then. Wish I knew then what I know now! LOL Now I'm an old dude and way out of the picture, but slightly older men may prove your best opportunities for love. Give those guys a bit more of a chance by talking with them, even forcing a bit. Be a bit forward if interested. Move in close on the ones you like. Do not succumb to the black dudes who will likely make you a sport. Such is well documented.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Personally, I don't think you should be worried. I mean, I have the same issue, only I'm not as beautiful as your description says and no guys ever hit on me. No actually, the nerdy guys do, but that's the beside the point! Perhaps young, white guys think they wouldn't be good enough to be with you? Try making friends with them and see how it goes from there. =]
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reader, xxlovexxhurtsxx +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I think you answered your own question. Maybe you do intimidate guys with your looks, or come off as being to cocky. Many guys are intimidated with beautiful girls and do assume they are taken ... i would just say to hang in there .. you will find your Prince Charming. and maybe watch yourself, don't scare guys away. Don't push it... just let things flow by themselves. Probably not what you wanted to here, especially from a 17yr old, but that is my perspective.
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