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writes:I have just started into a new relationship and I haven't had many and I want to make my girl feel special as I have heard my friends talking about it but I'm not to sure how to do this properly. Also my last girlfriend said after we split that I didn't make her feel special but I thought I did. Please help so I don't make the same mistake again. Yours hopefully Nev Reply to this Question
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reader, Alexander13579 +, writes (17 August 2010):
I am in the same situation, but my girlfriend is always telling me hoe special i make her feel. If you send her completley random texts just saying i love you, women love emoctional things like that, she feels like you actually mean it instead of saying it because it has come up in conversation. Also when you go to the cina of something (i know this because when i was first going out with her she was a bit upset that u didn't) touch her, i dont mean lile on the breasts i mean on the legs and show compassion for her, when you are walking around with her, hole her had, it will make her feel like you are proud to be her boyfriend instead, if you do not she feels like you are ashamed about it. Its the simple things lile this that make her feel special.Hope tgis helped :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Yup, i also tried and still somehow struggle with myself to tell my Bf, who is obviously that loves me or got so much attached to me that he cannot spend one day without, that i Dont Feel Special anymore.. I think is not to be taken that word"special" to literally. I split with guys that simply take the relationship for granted,and not thinking or doing anything to keep it alive.Hardly know also any woman that wants to be in monotonious relationship,doing every things every day...and so on. So, when girl, in my opinion says she doesnt feel special,she means that she doesnt like the way she is treated.Suprise in my opinion is a great solution to this problem,a pleasant one. All people like surpises.. be it a dinner,be it a kind of gift, be in going to some p;ace she would like... etc..
Dont forget that no matter how Strong any woman pretends to be,she Still wants to be treated like a woman.
Be a gentleman and treat her like princess,making her to feel natural about that also,and do not make that mistake of making the relationship boring.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Hi Nev
My bloke that i am married to now used to turn up with little gifts. On one date he turned up with red grapes (i love) in a dish taped to the dashboard of the car. Another time i found a little chocolate in my lunch box. Just the other day he send me an email at work (we both work for the same firm) he put, in the corridor.....you looked so gorgeous! It is amazing the little things that please us girlies. What music does she like? Buy her a cd and wrap it up in a nice winter scalf, not that romantic but very practical. Or a little teddy with her name on the front. As you stroke her hair gently say her name.
Make her feel special and you will win her over.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Does she work? send a suprise boquet of flowers out of the blue to her work. I have always wanted someone to do that for me.
Also it would be nice to take her out for a meal but to arrange it just call up and say 'get your glad rags on we are going out for tea' (obviously difficult if she has children she will need to send somewhere)
I would just like to say that your ex may have not ment her comment as it came out. I think that she is more likely to have ment that as time went on in the relationship she felt less special. This happens in most relationships, once the newness wares off, people stop doing those kind things for each other that initially made them stay in the relationship.
Word of advice, from time to time treat her - whether you have been together weeks, months or years.
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