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anonymous
writes:Theres been this guy in some of my classes at school and I thought he liked me cos he's been really chatty over the last couple of months. I have tried to make sure he doesnt get the impression I like him too though because I dont and I like someone else. Today this guys mate asked me for my number for him. I'm too nice to say no so I gave it to him but made it clear that it doesnt mean anything. Theres nothing wrong with this guy, dont get me wrong he is great! But Im just not interested in going out with him. Which is what I think he wants. But how can I make it clear to him Im not interested in being anything more than mates?!I've made sure I dont put kisses at the end of any messages to him because knowing him, he'll take it the wrong way. I also make a deal about not texting him back straight away. Any other ideas pleeeease let me know because I really don't want him thinking Im interested in him! x
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reader, 3mma  +, writes (2 December 2010):
i think your doing a good job already :)
maybe say things like ur a good FRIEND. or even mention the person you do like or tell him you like a guy, if he asks does he know him say no. You could just let him like you i mean you cant really stop him just keep up what ur doing and flirt with the guy you like ;) and make it clear you dont like the other guy. If he still wont get the message maybe you could just say i just wanna be friends plainly. thats what i did with a guy and were like best friends now xD
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