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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of about a year has been being distant and not replying to my messages straight away or calling me as often. We have had a few arguments the past few weeks. Normally we get along pretty well and have alot of similar interests. I have always apoligised after the arguments and worked things out. He used to always want me to come places with him and would always tell me to come. Lately though he will ask me if im coming over or coming to do something with him but he will be like you dont have to come if you dont want. He never used to say this and it has been making me feel like he doesnt really want me to come. Our sex life has been a little repeptitive and we would be lucky to have sex once a week. It has been frustrating me and i kind of got upset the other morning after giving him a blow job and he came not giving me anything in return. I called him selfish and all sorts of things. I felt bad and aploigised. I am just a little stuck what to do. How can I make him want me more?? Or get him interested in me again??
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reader, HughHefner'sPlaymate  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 Oh I feel bad for you,sadly I don't think there's anything you can do to make him interested again ,he has changed, maybe he's cheating or he wants to break up. At this point I think only you can decide how much of this treatment you're willing to take.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): you may not want to hear it but you can't make someone love you, it just don't happen. if he can't love you for what and who you are then move on,tough i know but don't go thru life being unappreciated. don't keep apologising especially if its not your fault and it annoyed you, if he won't listen to you or respect your feelings then tell him. i know from personal experience that no matter how much you love someone you can throw everything at the relationship if its not appreciated then you're wasting your time. good luck.
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