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writes:Basically. My guy split with me, and I am still desperately in love with him. But he keeps avoiding me and I need to speak to himm. He needs to realise how desperately in love with him I am! I actually need himmm more than anythingg. Anyway I need advice on trying to make him reallise that I love him, because I know that if he knew, he would reconcider it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): I found self help books helped. Go to your nearest bookshop and read up on ways to get over your ex.
The more you pressure him to realise you love him the more he will pull away. The fact is if he is going to be with you he needs to miss you!!!! You will become irritating to him the more you tell him about what you once had. It is like when you were a child and your carer told you to eat peas as they are great for you (lets assume you didnt like peas). The more she/he forced you to eat them the more you would reject it. Until one day they stopped forcing you with the peas after a while you may decide to try it yourself to see what all the fuss was all about and you remember her/him forcing you and have a chuckle about the way you pulled faces when rejecting the peas. You would then decide for yourself whether you liked the peas or not.
Im just saying with the law of attraction the more you push the more the other pulls away. The less you push the more inquisitive the other person would be.
He loved you once but something went wrong, you need to think about what that something was. Are you the same person you were when you FIRST met! people change all the time, including you!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 August 2008):
You don't get back with someone just because they love you. You have to like them too.
Why not write him a letter? I am sure you know where he lives so you could deliver it.
If he doesn't respond then you just have to accept that he doesn't like you back for whatever reason. What did he say when you broke up with him? It could be that your obsession with him scared him away.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Why would he? Did he not know before then? and if not how come?
Alarm bells are ringing a bit here, maybe he found you a bit full on, intense for him?
If he is avoiding you, it definately comes across that way.
Chill a bit. If its meant to be, he will be back.
C xxxxx
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