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writes:I joined an academy this Summer... Recently I started liking a girl, who is one year younger than me. Gradually I started thinking about her all the time. I tried many times to talk to her, but I couldn't get a nice chance. Sadly, the summer session came to an end. On the very last days, I was shocked to find out that she was the sister of one of my friend... Nowadays i have left academy, since 2.5 months, but still i keep thinking of her!!!now i only have one way to talk to her and that is Facebook... Plz tell me how can i make her my very close friend! I have a lot of admiration for her in my heart! My friend may not like this! What can i do??
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (16 November 2010):
Do NOT be pushy, needy, or seem desperate. That will not work out well for you. If you're contacting her multiple times a day, it gets to be a little much. I know this because my roommate is like that with all of his girl interests. He'll borderline Facebook stalk them and text them constantly, and when it takes them more than ten minutes to response to one of his texts, he absolutely freaks out.I've told him time and time again that I've talked to some of the women he's gone after and they see him as needy and pushy because of his overbearing, non-stop message sending. Girls need their space.I recommend just sending her a quick "Hello, how are you, remember me?" message, and give her time to respond. Whenever she gets around to responding, just keep the conversation simple. You DON'T have to talk to her every day. Just let her see on her own that you are a great guy and she may become interested on her own, but let her do that at her own pace. Best of luck.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 You say you have facebook and so does she. If you spent time talking to each other, over the months you guys will get closer. Just take it slow or you risk pushing her away or scaring her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 You cant make some one be your friend you just need to try.. Add her on facebook and ask her how she is take things slow and talk to her as a friend, ask her what she is doing and get to know her, if she doesnt reply then am afraid that she is not interested and you need to move on and not contact her again.
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