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writes:ok so i met this girl on a trip. we spent the whole week talking and we got together. problem is she doesnt believe i care about her. i dont know how she doesnt because if she fell as i was asking how she was and all. she fainted and i nearly had a heart attack,everyone can see i care about her soo much,i even love her but she doesbnt believe me. what can i do to convince her i care about her and love her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 July 2009):
Tell her!
If you say "I really like you, as in fancy you and think you are beautiful and want you to be my girlfriend" then she will have to believe you.
If she says that she doesn't she is either mentally ill, or she's playing a stupid game because she doesn't like you and she doesn't know what to say. If she says she still doesn't believe you then tell her that it's her loss and you won't bother her again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (26 July 2009):
She may have had bad experiances in the past that stop her from believing a guy could love her. You dont know the ins and outs and im sure that in time if she spoke to you openly and honestly you would see what it was thats damaged her, right now all you can do is try and understand her, she knows you like her and you need to keep this up show her your not like the rest your genuine and serious about it all.Why not sit and talk to her, start it with my god when you fainted i nearly had a heart attack! keep it short and sweet yet slowly getting her to open up to you and talk as you should be doing. See how shes feeling, she needs to trust you so forget being all cool about it this girl needs to know, look straight into her eyes, the eyes tell a lot about a person shell sense if your lying but if you keep the eye contact im sure shell show you more about herself. At this point im sure she knows you care, how much and why is what you need to prove, maybe she just needs that reasurance we all need from time to time. You must love her to ask the question, most guys wouldnt stand up and stick by a risk, i think this is a risk you can take and gain from, you love the girl let her know give it all youve got for all the right reasons.Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): get to know better then ask her out in a serious tone
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