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30-35,
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writes:Hi guys,A little bit about me.Im 18, turning 19 in two months.Ive never had a boyfriend.I've never been serious with a guy.I've never had the closure with a guy.Yet to experience it all.I've kissed one guy in my entire life (well recently it became two)And basically, I dunno how to explain the feeling but because I've never had the feeling before and I've never felt what a lot of other girls have felt I truly do think I fall really easily.I've been through a lot in my life... I've experienced bullying up to the age of 15, I've always had family problems, my parents recently got divorced, I barely get on with my mum, dont talk to my dad anymore.. I have a lot going on in my life and I have a lot of personal issues that I need to deal with like low self-esteem and low confidence as well as trust issues.I met this guy a while ago and he showed his interest in me in a straight forward manner, he kissed me, told me he liked me, but he's a busy guy so we don't get to talk on the phone and we dont text that much during the day. I dont get to see him that often but for some reason I really do like him, now im trying to figure out why i do if i dont know him as well as i should, there's obviously still a lot more to know about him and i should already know but his busy schedule doesnt allow us to communicate all the time.I've noticed in the past when ive gotten to know guys, i do like them pretty quickly but im always strong when it goes wrong and ends, but im literally hooked on this guy and to be honest i think its because we've kissed multiple times. The last guy i kissed before him was over two years ago. Im not the type of person to just kiss someone cause i think theyre cute or funny, I have to actually like them a lot, but how can i like him a lot if i dont know him that well...What do you guys think?
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (29 August 2011):
Express your affection as much as you want. It is one of the joys of life! Its not like you are jumping into bed with him or anything like that.
As far as him being busy all the time, you have to ask yourself if you are willing to have a relationship with someone who may not have that much time for you.
The "busy" people in my life never ended up in anything special.
If you are not so "busy" then you might not be happy with someone who does not have that much time for you.
And that is my only concern in the matter. Honestly tell yourself how much time you want to have with someone in a relationship and make sure your man can reciprocate.
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