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How can I let someone know I really like them more than a friend?

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Question - (17 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm in a real predicament... I am in love with an ex but he doesn't know and I don't know how to tell him! I usually see him regularly whilst out and about, I really get the impression he's interested, but I haven't seen him for weeks and it's killing me..

I came out of a relationship months ago and realised my feelings for this guy way before that - they are so strong. We are very similar creatures, neither of us wants to get hurt or make a fool of ourselves IMO. When I'm with him, it feels so wonderful and just 'right', but when I'm not, I doubt how he feels about me as I don't think myself lucky enough to have his love in return.

A few weeks ago I decided to do something about it the very next time I saw him and - guess what? - I haven't seen him since! I don't have his number anymore and am sick of being in limbo...what should I do?

He's made lots of effort in the past but I don't think I gave him the impression that I was interested (trying to play it cool..) but now I fear I'm not gonna have the chance.

Should I wait to see him again (I've gotta see him sometime, surely) or should I do something a little more direct?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

I know I should tell him and I psyched myself up for it! I feel we are connected somehow and I can't move on until I know...but it's the not seeing him that is so frustrating...

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

Say you're special and I love being with you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

just let them know, i am going to admit to my gf very soon

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