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writes:lingering ex bfthis girl I am dating tells me she isn't talking to her ex. I notice her texting someone who I am certain is her ex bf while we hang out but when I ask he about her relationship with him she tells me she doesn't talk to him.what should I do to let her see that it's hurting our relationship?
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Well if you didn't actually check her phone, she may not have been texting her ex. So you may be jumping to conclusions. I'm not advising you to snoop through her phone, because if you find something you don't like, how do you tell her without looking like a big snoop. It can really hurt the relationship as much or more than her texting her ex. On the other hand, you do need to know because if you're wrong, then you can relax and quit obsessing.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 February 2010):
 You obviously have a problem trusting her. Without trust the relationship doesn't exist. Your lack of trust is hurting your relationship too. Jealousy and fear are the opposites of love and trust. They can not coexist.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 February 2010):
First of all, be 100% sure that she is talking to her ex. And I do mean sure. Then, tell her you've seen her texting her ex and see what her answer is. Of course, if she still lies, then you know she's still into him and you need to get rid of her.
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