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51-59,
*rishanne
writes: How can I let go of my feelings? I was caught off guard! My friend with benefits brought his date to the apartment. I knew this was going to happen but not soo soon. I ignore him because I did not know how to react. Today the same treatment but he question why was I so quiet. What can I do?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (2 July 2007):
I would tell him what's up. Explain that you are a bit put out by him just bringing a date back out you out a little. Maybe next time he can let you know in advance so you can make plans or something
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reader, flower girl +, writes (2 July 2007):
Maybe you should sit down and discuss this and try and working something out, like if either of you are going to bring someone back then you let the other know, so if you don't want to be there you don't have to be.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): i think it's totally normal for you to react this way. he should have known better. but, since he's asking what's up, i'd give him the blunt truth.
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