A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: There's a boy at my school that I like, and when i see him hanging out with other girls, i start to feel jealousy. But it's not against him, because i know he doesn't know about how much i like him. The most i ever did was send him a rose last valentine's day that said "from your secret admirer". Do you think i should of maybe put my name instead. I was just so nervous to let him know it was from me. One of my friends,(person A) told one of my other friends (person B) that he knew it was from me. so B told me that info, and i believed it. But he's never made any acknowledgement that he knows. Yet he's not trying to stay away from me either. So either he doesn't know or he's ignored it and just not showing it. The point is I don't want to feel jealousy anymore, but i don't want to be the one that has to start up a conversation with him, because i'm just too nervous. Is there anyway of telling someone with out having to actually talk to them? I mean i've written a couple notes, but never got the courage to give it to him, so i think that option's out. Sorry if i made it complicated.please and thank for any advice:)
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reader, Nobody21 +, writes (24 September 2008):
At your age, or any age, rejection sucks. But as a not so popular girl that once was your age, just tell the guy you like him. The worst that will happen is he won't feel the same, and you can move on in your heart. Otherwise, you obsess for months over someone not worth the time.
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