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male
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30-35,
*ot telling
writes:Ok... well i've been going out with this girl for 2 years now and we started getting in bed with each other but she usually only gets turned on by watching me wank. The problem with this is i dont know the best way to wank. I cant last long enough and she doesn't get turned on enough for us to have sex. please can you tell me how i can make myself last longer while wanking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): I find this a HUGE turn on too and am all too eager to lick my man back to full power and have a nice long session after the intial show. If your girl isn't willing to go there, have her masterbate while you do and hope she can get there quick after you turn her on. Also, you could masterbate ahalf an hour before you show her your moves to last longer. I'm sure watching her go wild for you will bring you right back!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): Why don't you have her use a hand-held vibrator/massager while you wank...that way she will get aroused much more quickly and you might actually have a chance of climaxing together... I use a massager that is actually for back/muscle pain, but it is very powerful and works great and quickly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): My wife really gets turned on by watching me wank,But in order for me to hold out I masturbate her at the same time I am Masturbating. Try to concentrate on her pleasure more than your own until she has had her satisfaction,Then feel free to turn loose (Hope this helps,Good luck!)
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reader, Ears4tears +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Try not thinking to much honey!!!
Talk though your problem with your girlfriend and maybe you could come to some kind of a comparmise.
If she loves you she will understand and help work it out.
HAVE FUN!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): As a women it is difficult to answer, as even I have yet to master what goes on in a mans head while masterbating.
Not being funny but does your girlfriend perhaps do this on purpose so she doesnt have to have sex? Perhaps ther is an underlying problem?
If she does like to watch you wank then you could try thinking of things that do not turn you on while you do it just prep her by telling her what you are going to do to her. I dont really know what else to say. Good luck
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