How can I just ignore my friends when they want to be left alone without having the urge to always talk to them?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have this problem. When i don't talk to my friends for a couple of days i get needy for attention then i bug the crap out of them so i have someone to talk to. How can I just ignore my friends when they want to be left alone without having the urge to always talk to them? I use to see my friends all the time and now that we have graduated and summer vacation. They're much to busy for me and i can't handle not seeing them. One of my friends is a guy and hes not the type of person who likes to hangout and i've been bugging him to hangout with me and i totally forget that he has a life. I'm a little jealous because he's been driving everywhere and not been bored like me. i can't drive because i'm taking medication for my back and it makes me drowsy. were good friends but he doesn't want to come visit me and i just have to get use to that and leave him alone.

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