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writes:right this isnt exactly my problem but i need advice on how to help him through it.My friend is 20. hes got all sorts rong with his health, at the moment he is unable to eat and is on liquid meals. he recently met a girl and they went out , he was happy as larry and even happier when she fell pregnant. his gr then dumped him a few weeks later. he has done nothing wrong but treat her well. he is tired of being treat like crap for doen the right things, caring and being there , most lads would of left her to look after the baby, he hasnt he wants to be there and be a part of its life, and she keeps being horrible to him , he really had not done anything wrong. hes in a real rut. we talk about it everyday, his home life isnt that good either. he doesnt have his own space , his cousin is always in his house and in his room messing it up and smoking his fags and drinkin his drink. he seems to only get space when hes in hospital.I really want to help him out of this hole. but how ? everything that can be said , has , afterall im 15 but the age doesnt bother me, im mature for my age so much so that ill help anyone thats wht me and him are so close we try our best for each other. , hes a really good friend and helps me whenever i need it. i owe it to him t be here for him ? and he knows that i am. i just dont knw how to help him anymore , i hate seeing him so down. any advice on how to help him get throught it ? thankyou x
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reader, HopefulYouth +, writes (28 May 2009):
HopefulYouth is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have got him out , my friend whom im also close to and how i met the twenty yr old , drives and everytime i ask him to go through for 20yr old he complains tht me and him talk too much. my 20yr old friend is through alot recently hes loves being with us x
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reader, summerslady21  +, writes (28 May 2009):
About this girl is it his kid? The only thing I can say to do is get him out just the two of you just to get this off his mind! You stated you have said all that can be said,.. Then why not take action and get him out and about! Being his best friend I'm sure you know what he enjoys doing so hook him up and get him doing these things! Talk about other things! Well try at least!
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