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writes: I have a boyfriend but he stays far away. He is always talking of marrying but I am not ready even though I do love him. I got involved in another relationship when he was away and began to love the two equally. I want to remain with one but I can't stand breaking the other one`s heart. How should I handle this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): sorry for the double post! :D
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (15 December 2007):
How do you brush him off without hurting him? You cant. This is the harsh cruel world we live in. There may be ways to make it easier on the guy but i have no experience in that.
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reader, modusoperandi +, writes (15 December 2007):
If I knew I'd tell ya! I'm in the same predicament!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Not sure which guy you're referring to in the last part of your question, but my advice is to be HONEST to ALL PARTIES.Honesty is the key, even if it's painful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): I'm not sure which one or the other you're talking about, but my advice is to just be honest with all parties, and follow your gut...
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