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writes:hi i am currently trying to conceive i would like some advice on the any quick ways to get pregnant? or anything i can do to get pregnant faster?i have been with my bf for 2years and have had one misscarraige before we have been trying again for the past 3months
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): Stop alcohol and smokingExercise dailyBe happyplus: Count how many days your cycle is. Most people have between 28 and 36 days, and most around 28.Count day 1 as the first day of your period.From day 6 onwards, have sex at least once a day.From day 9 onwards, test daily with an ovulation test.When you get a positive on the ovulation test, make sure you have sex twice a day every day and keep testing with ovulation test every day until the ovulation test shows negative again. Then wait. If within 7 days you start feeling a bit hot, boobs start tingling and things smell a bit stronger than usual, probably you will be pregnant ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): I am 6 1/2 months pregnant with my first. I know this sounds cliche, but it really does happen when you least expect it in a lot of cases. I was ttc for 18 months rigorously and eventually just decided to give up for a while because the pain of getting the big fat negative every month was making me very depressed. My bf had cancer and went through radiation so his sperm count was low, I kind of gave up hope on conceiving naturally. But get this, as soon as I got my mind off of it I got pregnant! I had just stopped ttc 2 months before and bam! I think it has a lot to do with stressing out and the emotional roller coaster ttc can be. Once you relax, everything in your body calms down and it can do it's thing!
Btw, people used to tell me this all the time when I was ttc and I didn't believe them. But it turns out it really did work!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): thank you for all of your advice it is very helpfull :) So_Very_Confusedi feel it is very rude for you to judge me on what age i should and should not have a baby, no i'm not married but i'm engaged and so very happy!!!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Giggity giggity and lots of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): It seems youve gotten some very good advice but i might add make sure you are mentally prepared. Having a baby can reall try your relationship. I am 22 and my fiancee and i have a 16 month old and a 2 wk old. The other day i dropped 80 bux just in diapers alone and it will only last maybe a month. Be prepared for lack of sleep and if you breast feed make sure you toughen ur nipples up b4 the baby comes. If you dont trust me its agony. Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): Have sex at least once every two days, lie down afterwards for at least half an hour, longer if poss and dont pee for as long as possible after too. Missionary position or 'doggy style' is best.
Dont drink, smoke, you should be taking folic acid and him zinc if you're trying to conceive.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 and you want a baby with a boyfriend (NOT a husband) at your age why????
are you sure you are ovulating regularly?
does he have viable sperm in his ejaculate?
sex 1-3 days before ovulation and the day of ovulation should help.
having sex daily or multiple times a day will decrease sperm production and actually work against getting pregnant.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Relax, trying to get get pregnant usually results in not getting pregnant. "Then to the lip of this earten ern I learned,drink,for once dear you never shall return" Relax, time will fix this "problem"
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (25 May 2011):
Ovulation prediction kits, a medicine called Clomid (if you can get your OB to give it to you), sexual positions that offer deep penetration, putting your legs up on the wall for a while right after he cums, maybe following the ovulation predictions and holding off on sex for a few days before hand so that his sperm count is good and built up for the time, then only having sex once a day during that time (to allow a lot of sperm to build back up). Honestly though, if you're too worried about getting pregnant you probably won't. You've heard of couples that try for so long to no avail and then turn up pregnant the moment they say "screw it." So just relax; it'll happen. Just have fun with it. Just from a guy's perspective, condoms really take away from the experience of sex though they are a necessary evil most of the time. I'm not one to go serial fornicating all over the place; I prefer one girl at a time and nothing is more special, exciting, and more of a complete turn on than to be able to make love with that one special woman and not have to worry about condoms breaking, pulling out, "did you take your pill?", all of that stuff. There is less stress when you make love with the full INTENT to make a baby and there is certainly more emotions involved. Also, it just feels MUCH better bareback. My point? Just relax and ENJOY that entire experience. Don't rush it. :)
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Hi
The more you keep trying the more pressure you will both put on yourselves. Just relax and enjoy the fun on the way, it will happen when you least expect it to. Or you will both end up like sex robots and start to loose the passion in your sex, which could end up pushing you away from eachother.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 May 2011):
 What's the hurry?
And no, in general it takes the time it takes ( I know, annoying answer)
Have you done the whole ovulating calender thing yet? That way you two make use to use the most fertile times of the month.
http://www.marchofdimes.com/pregnancy/ovulation_calendar.html?gclid=CIegobuEg6kCFU5qKgodkU6jUg
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