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writes:alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so we decided to remain friends. Anyway we have gotten together a number times since then but everytime i see her and hang out with her all those past feelings for her just came rushing back and even though i know that nothing is ever going to happen between us i still feel the same way about her because she is such an amazing person and we both have very similar interests and just knowing that we share similar interests and really like spending time together and still not being able to be anything more than friends. So here is my question, she is still all i think about and it really and it really bothers me that we are never going to be more than friends because we had become friends while she was dating someone else and just knowing that i never had a change anyway just frustrates me so much. So how can i get over these feelings of frustration without cutting her out as a friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 The answer is you can't! Sorry, there's no other option than to let it go and cut her out of your life for your own sake. You are only around 20. As you get older you will realize that there are no magical solutions in problems regarding the oposite sex. Most of the times, the most obvious solution to a problem with girls is the only solution. Best wishes!
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Hello,
you can't really get over these feelings because you have already tried and it don't work. I'm afraid you are going to have to cut and run. It is incredibly frustrating to be in your position wanting her and always knowing there will never be anything at all. You either suffer like this or begin to pull away. I wont say there are other girls out there because that is obvious, there are. There are girls that will want you and love you and hold onto you. Trust me. Cut this now and start looking for a girl that actually wants you.
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