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writes:I've broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We broke up because we both came from different worlds. When we broke up we were both still in love with each other. I thought i was over him but i guess im not. i dont know what to do as i have these strong feelings for him... what should i do?! help please...
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (3 December 2007):
 "thank u 4 all the good advice... the thing is i really do want to contact him but i dont know if i am strong enough too...also i dont know how he feels now and his feeling may have changed. I don't like rejection and he may be coping fine without me..."Only one way to find out :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): thank u 4 all the good advice... the thing is i really do want to contact him but i dont know if i am strong enough too...also i dont know how he feels now and his feeling may have changed. I don't like rejection and he may be coping fine without me...
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reader, starfairy +, writes (3 December 2007):
 By meaning different worlds, do you mean something like one of you is in a religion where you must have an arranged marriage, or something similar?If you were still in love when you broke up, it's going to be a tough one to get over him.The best advice is out of sight, out of mind. Throw away the photos, the lettersm delete the number and texts, go out of your way to stay out of his way.This will really help ease the pain, obviously you will still think of him, but with less reminders about this will soon be less and less frequent.Failing thatm have you not considered that some things were meant to be? Can your differences not be put aside?
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (3 December 2007):
bgagirl2692:"You both let your differences get in the way of your relationship. The more differences you both have, the more that it should bring you both together"Couldn't agree more. Life would be so boring if you went out with your identical self."You love him and im sure he still has feelings for you so despite of what " different worlds" you both come from, it will never change the feelings you have for eachother"Again, I agree. You let your differences get in the way of your relationship. Just let go, accept the differences, and enjoy each other."Give it another chance because you shouldnt let love go to waste like that because you'll end up regretting it, as you are doing right now!"Sounds soppy coming from a bloke but love isn't as common as some people might think. In about 12 years (I'm 29) I found it once, and was surprised I found it a 2nd time about 5/6 years later. 3rd time lucky for me I hope :)Nice one bgagirl2692. Excellent post!
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 You both let your differences get in the way of your relationship. The more differences you both have, the more that it should bring you both together. You love him and im sure he still has feelings for you so despite of what " different worlds" you both come from, it will never change the feelings you have for eachother. Give it another chance because you shouldnt let love go to waste like that because you'll end up regretting it, as you are doing right now!
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reader, sweetlaura2008 +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Well what i suggest is maybe try and get in contact with him and tell him how you feel but if you dont have the confidence in telling him how you feel then i suggest you write him a letter and explain to your parents you love each other and you cant get over him and they need to accept it because if they love you then they will know youll doing it for all the right reasons and even if you do come from different worlds their always ways to overcome these situations.Any more problems or concerns please let me know.
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