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female
age
36-40,
*ova
writes:Hi. My husband is very nice to me. But sometimes he gets angry for silly reasons and shouts at me. I sometime feel like getting out of it but it will be impossible. He loves his parents a lot but he never speaks to them he always shout at them. He never likes my family members as there was some issues before. He never comes to my parents place but he allows me to go. He wants me to join his friends and enjoy the party but he never wants to join his cousins family people.I dont understand whats wrong with him.I sometimes get scared to talk to him. He is very lazy and does not keep up his words. What ever work he takes up he will do it only for minimum 15 days and stop it. Later if i talk about that he will shout at me.Please help me in this. I want my husband to be active and also to be friendly with everyone. Mainly with my family people.
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reader, terrifenby  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 The main thing here is are you happy? Thats the main question you need to be asking yourself and no one on here is going to be able to answer that for you. If you are not happy thentell him and if he can sit there listen to you and make the changes that you need him to make to ensure your happiness than he is not worth it. No-body deserve to live a life that is not happy! Talk to your family members and his too if you feel comfotable to do that and see if there is any support in which they can offer you! You should not feel scared to talk to him that is not the way a marraige should be. Try to tell him how you feel and if he dont like it or wont listen grab your bags and go. Dont be afraid to do that if that what you want to do. If yiu are scared of what he might do there are people who can help. If you need any further advice private message me and i will do my very best to help you!
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reader, rambini +, writes (15 April 2010):
 you start with the words "my husband is very nice to me" and then you go on to write a whole post about reasons why he isn't nice to you? there are clearly issues here, and he is being lazy, angry and inconsiderate. you either need to get up the courage to leave him and find someone who deserves you, try to talk to him to get him to change, or stay and accept that his behaviour wont change. but if you want anything to be different you either have to talk to him or leave.
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