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writes:My boyfriend seems to not notice me in a positive way or sexual way. I don't know if it's because he's more attracted to his video games or I'm just not attractive enough, but either way it's lowering my self esteem. What can I do to make him notice me in a positive and sexual way
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2017): Talk to him and ask him to literallly drop his games to talk to you. The games aint leaving but you could if he doesnt give you the attention you deserve.
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reader, N91  +, writes (25 January 2017):
 I agree with Honeypie.
I don't think he's mature enough, I love playing video games but there's no way on earth would I be spending my time on them if I had a girlfriend to entertain at my house.
If he's not fulfilling your needs then he's not the guy for you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 January 2017):
I have to say a young guy your age choosing video games over his GF is just NOT ready for anything serious.
You can't and shouldn't compare yourself to a video game.
If you are spending time at his house and he RATHER play video games than interacting with you, I'd start leaving and I'd also start considering that maybe he isn't a very good BF and not a good match for you.
This is NOT about you not being "good" enough, "sexy" enough - but him 1. not knowing what a relationship takes and 2. not being mature enough to put down his "games" and spend time with you.
I think saying:" all right, I can see you are busy with your game so I'll head on home or to a friends house because sitting here watching you play games isn't working for me". Either he steps up or you will see that breaking up with him is the better choice for you. If he can't put down the game and focus on you, what's the point of dating him?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (25 January 2017):
 Talk to him about it. You can't make someone feel something. He may just be someone who isn't very sexual. If he didn't see you positively, he wouldn't be with you.
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