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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex boyfriend have been broken up for about three months now. He broke up with me so I still have feelings for him. My best friend likes him and they went out before we were friends. He broke my heart and hers many,many times and I don't want to see her get hurt(again). I've liked him for five years now and there back together! She knows I still love him and she still dates him. I overreacted and called her a man-stealing,backstabbing,two faced jerk when she told me they are together again. He tells me he loves me and wants to have s*x with me even though he is with her. I tell her and show her the emails but she doesn't believe me. What can I do to make her believe me and make him not like her?!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 February 2010):
You've shown her the emails, you've told her the stories, she hasn't listened to a word you've said. Let her find out for herself.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (11 February 2010):
Woah. Drama city. So let me see if I've got this straight. She dated him first, then you dated him... knowing that she had. Now he's back with her. You claim to be best friends, but clearly you don't know the best friends rule. The rule goes -- if my friend is romantically involved with a guy for longer than 24 hours, then he's officially off limits to me - forever.
What's really scary is I think you slipped up at the end. you claim to be posting that you don't want HER to get hurt... then you say he wants to have sex with you and what can you do to make him not like her? So basically you don't care about your friend you just want this jack@$$ back for some inexplicable reason? I hope that's not what's really going on. He doesn't sound like a good guy at all.
You can't control other people. But if this guy is such a playboy it will just be a matter of time before they are history.
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