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anonymous
writes:Hiabout 1 year 7 months back I slept with a prostitute, I started talking to her and I fell in love with her, then I got her to stop all the things she is doing and I am helping her and the family. She stopped prostitution and started doing a normal job and I gave the extra cash she need for her and the family whenever she has a problem she calls me and meets me and talk about it. I was there for her whenever someone is needed. I gave her advice about life and always told her not to do the same mistake again. Then I asked her out and she said she does not have any feelings for me. I kept on helping her in every possible way since I do not want her to get back to what she was doing. She was always telling me that she does not have any feelings for me. She was being honest with me and told me to stop helping her if I feel bad to be with her. She had one relationship with a guy during this period and it’s over now. Now she is telling me that she likes another guy. I am really in love with this girl and I like her qualities and honesty. How do I make this girl to fall in love with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): You two may have met in the most phsyical and intimate way possible but sex does not equal love. If you were always there for her, yes you are helping her out and you are a good friend. But she had the decency to be honest with you and say she doesn't feel about you the way you feel about her. You can't make her change her mind. If you wish to go on being a good friend to her, that's great. But you should NOT continue helping her on the assumption you can make her love you. All that will happen is you'll lose money and wind up being hurt more than you are now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): thank you very much for your reply, I was reading some forums on the internet and it said that being there for a girl whenever she needs you will make you lose the girl, is it true. I want to learn something from this. I use to call her like 4 – 5 times a day, is this not good or should I wait till she calls me?
please let me know how to be with a girl.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (14 February 2010):
 Hi,
I am sorry but you cannot make someone fall in love with you if they do not have those feelings for you.
She was in an unfortunate position a while ago as a prostitute...and you helped her. This I assume you did out of the kindness and goodness of your heart, with no intention of being repaid...am I right??
She has made it quite clear to you that she does not have feelings for you...you need to accept that and move on from it. You can choose if being friends with her is okay for you. You helped her get her life back..that does not mean she has to fall in love with you.
I am sorry this will not work the way you want it to but if you force her, yours will be a love that is void of love...one sided....it's best to move on my friend.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 February 2010):
There is no honesty in her. You're just a cash cow to her. That's it. She doesn't love you, she's just using you for money. You need to move on from her.
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