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writes:I like this girl, and I've been trying to let her know for a while. But everytime I get her alone I get interrupted by another person in the class. I'm in college and this girl is very friendly with me. I decided since it wasn't working trying to tell her in person I wrote her an email telling her how I felt. But she didn't reply to the email. However the next day she messaged me online and she talked to me for a while telling me about her day. What do I do, do I just forget about her. I mean she makes deep eye contact with me in class, she jokingly hits me, laughs at all my jokes, and there is tension between us. Are all these signs nothing. I mean I let her know and I got nothing back. Should I just forget about her, because I'm confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, JohnnyTxx  +, writes (23 March 2008):
I say the same as ishawan said. Just walk up to her and ask her if she would like to take a walk with you and then have a chat with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Eventually, a chance for you two will be alone will arise, if not why not just say 'can we go on a little walk', at least then youll be guaranteed to be alone. That way you'll also be in control of the situation.
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reader, lovinit  +, writes (23 March 2008):
this opinion is coming from an 18 yr old ( yep im advanced lol) with a bachelors degree and is currently in medical school to become a cardiac surgeon.. :) so here it goes...
well first when you write emails to people you should have a choice of getting a note when they open the email. that way you can tell if she read it of not. you could send the same message again but change the subject a bit or something so she would open it and that way she would be trapped.
secondly, well it looks like she likes you as a friend. thats a given right now though. she might like you more than a friend but thats not guaranteed. only thing that is is that she likes you as a friend ( im 100% positive on that).
what do you mean by tension between you and her? give examples :)
deep eye contact is tricky. possibility that she likes you and there is a possibility that she likes you as a friend... throw out some questions to narrow down the probably or friends... ask her to the movies... just you and her. if that works then she likes you more than a friend but thats not all thats too it.
i could easily type more paragraphs on how to test to make sure that she likes you but i think you get the point.
post back if you have any questions or updates! i love to see what my help can do for others!
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reader, tux +, writes (23 March 2008):
 Well, you have already emailed her and she still did talk to you. Though, she did not mention the email at all? Either she didn't see it or maybe wanted you to make the first step personally and maybe felt awkward on how to approach you about it. Personally, you may want to see if she read the email and maybe reiterate what you wrote and see how she feels if she really means that much to you.
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reader, HMBBabyface +, writes (23 March 2008):
 But you DID get something back. She messaged you online the next day. Don't look to get her alone in a scholastic situation. Ask her to lunch or dinner to study and talk to her there. Talk to her online as much as possible. All of the right signs are there for you. If you want this, it's as good as yours. All you have to do is ask her.
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