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anonymous
writes:I have had some emotional "issues" with a married man who has been my friend for 10 years, and because I felt i was falling for him hard I broke off our friendship (via e-mail). I told him I would not contact him anymore. The day after I e-mailed him that, another friend of mine needed his contact info for business. I knew this opportunity could mean alot to his career, i doubted if I should contact him. Finally I did send him a professional textmessage but now he has not replied and I feel ultra stupid. I am wondering if he is thinking I am using that as an excuse to contact him, which I am really not. Gosh could anyone give me some insight in what a man in this situation may be thinking? I don't want to seem like a stalker, or like I don't know what I want. I still care for him deeply maybe that is why I am so paranoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): Because he really didn't love you to began with you were only a possible booty call and since you didn't want sex he doesn't want you. move on don't call him again you deserve so much better.
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 He's not going to respond after you've already said you want to end the friendship, via email of all things. Why would he? You said you wouldn't be contacting him again, and then in spite of that, sent a message the very next day. It's best to leave him alone.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Did you break off the friendship because you really wanted it to end?...or did you break it off because you were hoping he would rise to the challenge and pursue you, because deep down you have feelings for him?
When you did'nt recieve the answer you were hoping for, you e-mailed him the business type e-mail. Ok you did it for a friend, but maybe deep down you were hoping for a response...and it never happened.
He may be hurt and unhappy at you saying you were breaking the friendship, but now you have done it...you should really just leave him alone. If you contact him again your credibility is going to 'bomb'
Fix your mind on something else. He is married and belive me, it's better left undone!
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reader, Mycrazylife  +, writes (9 July 2010):
Just give his email addy to the other person and leave it alone. You did the righty by stopping the friendship, just leave it there. If you do contact again he is going to think your playing games.
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