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How can I find out who the father of my child is?

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Question - (18 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Please help me... i had sex with one guy round dec 11 or 12 we only had sex once n it was unprotected..

but ive been having sex with this other guy for a while n its always unprotected.my last cycle was dec 26 and now im 16wks pregnant

who could be the father of my child...??

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

pebble agony auntYou can't be entirely sure who the daddy is I'm afraid...

I really don't envy your position. The only thing you can do is wait until the baby is born, and then have a DNA test done.

I think you should tell both potential fathers that they're in the running because one of their lives is about to change forever and it's only fair that they both know the situation.

Good luck.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntNiki20 is right. It either of them could be the father of your child, I suggest you get an STI screen as you don't want to pass something nasty to your child.

In future please use protection preferably something hormone based as well as Condoms you really are old enough to know better!

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (18 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntyou can get a paternity test when the child is born. but it sounds like the 2nd guy is tge father to me. but to be sure get a test. if your last cycle was on the 28th of dec and your 16weeks pregnant. think about who you had sex w/ 16 weeks ago,

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