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*nquisitivequiet
writes:Hello everyone, it's me again. I have a rather confusing question that may need a little help from someone with an open mind, and little prejudice. Lately, I have been highly curious about my bisexual side. I have always had an odd affinity for the female body. I love the luscious curves, the shape of the breasts. The female body is incredibly beautiful, to me. My boyfriend and I are deeply in love, but this curiosity of mine is quite distracting. I've talked to my boyfriend about this, and he told me that he wouldn't at all mind if he caught me kissing a girl. My question is this: Am I a bisexual? For the first time in my life, I am romantically attracted to a girl and it is so confusing. How can I find out whether or not I am bisexual without leaving my boyfriend? My curiosity is stifling.
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reader, inquisitivequiet +, writes (24 July 2010):
inquisitivequiet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I've been talking to my boyfriend and he recently admitted that he had a fantasy about two girls kissing- he never mentioned any actual intercourse. But he admitted that he would have liked to see me make-out with another girl. I don't think I'll go for it. I think I can handle my curiosity for now. They are only short urges to kiss, nothing involving intercourse. I'd rather keep my boyfriend than satisfy my curiosity. Thank you, all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): well sweetie do you ever get a little happy when you see a pretty girl? if so then you prob are. but that is no reason to leave you BF enless you like some girl more?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 July 2010):
Well, I don't know whether you're a bi-sexual or not. But I can answer two other things or you.
1 - Your boyfriend will mind you kissing someone else. He may think he won't, but he will.
2 - There is no way you can find out without leaving your boyfriend.
So, it's a case of your either staying with your boyfriend and never knowing, or leaving your boyfriend and finding out. You need to make that choice.
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