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writes:i am going out with a girl and i really love her but i dont think she loves me the same way, how could i find out if she loves me the same? Reply to this Question
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (30 May 2007):
 To be honest, if she loves you, you'll definitely KNOW it. Its something called the interest level, and it always starts at quite a high level, then drops as time goes by. Now, raising her interest level isn't a problem, its keeping it there. If she loves you, her interest level is high, which means she'll appreciate the time spent with you more. The higher her interest level, the more effort she'll put in to make the relationship work. You should be able to tell by the way she talks about you to her friends, how much she tries to compromise, how much she is willing to give in to you, etc. Dont take that for granted though, but thats an entirely different subject, so we'll leave that for now.
Knowing how much she loves you is very important in a relationship, most men don't even have a clue as to when they start going wrong as they can't/don't read the signals, then they make the mistake of making more mistakes! Its good of you to want to know now. All I can say is read the signs and do something about it if they are present.
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reader, stina  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Hi Anonymous,
If you love her, then you should feel comfortable discussing this sort of thing with her. But then again, some people don't say that they love the other person, they show it through their actions. How does she treat you? If she treats you right, then you know she cares about you.
Personally, I think it's best just to give her time and see where things lead, okay?
Take care.
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