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writes:Hey guys, so.. if you've read my questions before, you'll know the mist of my last relationship. we broke up 2 and a half months ago. He broke up with me and used the stupid "it's not you its me" thing.. he didnt know what he wanted.. so then after we broke up, i rekindled with my old friends. this relationship was going to be 2 years if we hadn't broken up. there is someone in mind ... but I can't seem to get over the face of thinking baout how my ex would feel ... I know he'd be devastated to find out about this.. what should i do? this guy just asked me to be his gf... and I really don't know what to do. help.. I want it but I dont. I'm feeling what my ex was feeling before with me.. help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut the thing is, he wanted me back.. right when I start to try to live life without him... I don't wanna hurt anyone..=/
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): Do you want a commitment with the new guy right now?
Maybe you do not feel enough to be monagamous right now.
You broke up with your last bf about 3 mos ago and it sounds like you were together a long time (Almost 2 years?)
It takes awhile to really get over someone. Give yourself time, tell the new guy to relax and just have fun!
No need to have to "belong" to anyone other than yourself right now:)
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): Your ex broke up with you because of what he WASN'T feeling anymore towards you...not because he'd be feeling devastated if you got with someone else or he never would have dumped you! Your safe to move on with a good conscious..don't even think twice about it.
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