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I caught him cheating on me with my ex-besfriend!!

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Question - (17 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *aLaLa6 writes:

I just sarted dating this boy. I really like him and he said he would do anything for me. I'm not sure if he really likes me though. I caught him cheating on me with my ex-besfriend. He doesn't know that i know, he said he had something important to tell me. The thing he had to say was that he really loved me and he wanted me to move in with him. He said he would die for me. I don't know if i should just foreget about what i saw or if i should confront him about what i saw. What should i do?

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (17 August 2010):

TimmD agony auntYou say you just started dating his boy.... how long is that exactly? For someone who just started dating, he's already saying he wants you do move in with him, and that he'd die for you?

He sounds like trouble. Don't forget what you saw... that would just be living a lie of a relationship. By all means, confront him if he does not admit it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010):

How can he love you and die for you! When he cheated on you had the same thing happen to me and now they are together.Sometimes listen to your heat not your heart love is uncontinal and each of you give 100%.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010):

A) he's cheated on you

B) he's not even had the decency to come clean

C) you only just start dating so there are no complications

Get rid of the lying loser. It won't get any better.

Actually can't believe you even needed to ask!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (17 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntShould we put that to die for u theory to test? Lol, just joking. It takes two to tango, and of all people it had to be with ur bestie. Men will say anything to try or say anything to redeem themselves.."I cheated on u with ur bestie so the way to say Im sorry is an I love u and lets move in together." I dont think so. Can u really forget about it, even if u tried there's no trust and thats something u gotta have in a relationship. Bottom line, tell him u know what a lying, cheating douche bag he is, and ur "bestie" can be kicked to the curb as well. If ur best friend hooks up with ur bf then she is not the type of best friend u want. Dump them both.

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