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anonymous
writes:I love my boyfreind, i'm leaving school at the end of the year (I have completed grade 12 and then doing to uni) and getting engaged. It feels so right to me but, all my mates just dont understand what i feel, and always bring me down like saying, it wont last because i'm young, but i dont think of it that way.How do i deal with that, because it's really starting to make me moody towards them?
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Hi there, i think what you friends mean is that, you have just finished school and they are just concerned that you are commiting to something so young and it is getting you moody as you feel like they dont understand how you feel.
I am glad you are going to university, please wait to get married, as you have not experience life yet and people change as they get older and develop and you are way to young at this stage to get married.
you are very young, enjoy your life, you can still have fun with your boyfriend and do things together but its so important you get you education and be able to support yourself in years to come.
Enjoy youself and take care.
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reader, growing  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 You sound very immature person to me,i am just wondering how your question got approval of getting posted here??just go and don't waste our mind and dare not post such questions in future.
So now will this stop you of posting questions here or make you immature just cos am saying this????
No.rite????
so if you know that you are serious about him and that it will last long then just brush off their comments about your relationship.
If you are talking about real frds ,who want yr good then ask him what makes them think this way?? and if it is just that you are young for relationship then let them know you are done with school and are in uni now ,so you are sensible enuff of being with sum1 and then even tell them that you don't know what life has enstore for you but you love him and want to be with him today.let god decide for tomorrow and tell them that you will take required precaution to avoid any kind of mess later on.
Now think about yourself,so make sure that you are with right person who actually deserve this much trust of yrs.
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