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36-40,
*ndy00
writes:I can't bear the thought of my ex-girlfriend moving on.It feels as though it's going to take me a long time to get a new girlfriend, since she was my first, and I have loved her for the past 4 years I've known her, and these 5 months without her have been the worst, boring, miserable months of my life.It's probably wrong to complain because there are much, much worse things happening in the world. But how on earth can I accept that she is going to have somebody new eventually?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (12 October 2007):
Only time and a new gf will solve your problem. Going to see some comedy movies helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Andy, you will move on but it takes time. It will not happen overnight. Even two years is a long time to be with someone. Why did you split up? When she meets someone you will have to accept it, so will she, when you meet someone. You are both going to get on with your lives. The best thing is to take each day as it comes. Get out there with your friends, dont dwell on things. If these months have been miserable then there are better days ahead. Take up some hobbies. Keep busy. Time is the best healer.
take care
xx
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (12 October 2007):
Andy00 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I will quickly say: I made a mistake. I put 4 years, I meant 2.
Apologies.
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