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writes:Hi,I was in relationship for almost 17 months with a woman whom I thought was the chosen one, we had since the beginning good times never any bad no violence or arguments just love and care and planed to get married the next Valentine's Day but during the last 11 weeks or so she became pregnant and shock we where being and feeling old like 40s( my thoughts here).Not understanding her needs i said to her the best would to abort, not thinking about here feelings for that unborn life, I thought only that her medical condition would not have permitted the pregnancy so I did push here now I am feeling the mistake i made but to late. She told to leave the house and rather being alone so basically finish relation ship hart broken we both are..but I don't really understand yet why as we both loved each other so much. My god....would not like to lose here for ever, I mean we still talk now and she said just to friends good friends...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): You told her to kill yours and her child, something that if you really loved her as you say, you'd have never even thought of doing. I guess this is what you get for being selfish. She saw a part of you that she did not like, and did not think was there. After realizing it was there, she thought better than to carry on being with you. I don't blame her.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (12 October 2007):
 I'd tell her, that you were insensitive of her feelings, that you apologize and afraid because of her medical condition. I'd tell her also that you're sorry she felt hurt, and you weren't at all trying to convey this as being a bad thing, and that you know you don't deserve her but would be honored if she gave your relationship another chance.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
Write her a letter and tell her your comment about abortion was flippent and without proper thought. Tell her you want to be a father and want to make home with her.
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