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How can I convince him to have a baby with me?

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Question - (12 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I need some advice with my relationship. I am trying to convince my husband into have "our" baby. But, he doesn't seem to want to have any now. He has already two kids a boy 5 yrs old and a girl 7 yrs old, but they live in a different country and he only sees them once a year. He is 32 years old and I am 22 I have tried talking to him about having a child of our own and it seems to go no where. What do I do and what do I say to convince him into wanting to have a child and looking at it as a good thing. Please give good advice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010):

This is something you both need to want and not one convincing the other. It's a big step and a huge responsibility. This is something that should happen when you're both 100% ready, and even though you are now, he obviously isn't which is why you'll have to wait for him.

After all, you are only 22. You have so many years ahead of you for all that, what's the rush?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010):

Did you talk about this before you got married? I don't think you can convince someone that they want a child they either do or they don't.

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