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writes:i think im gay but i dont want to be. how can i change my sexuality so that i dont think about men and stop watching videos. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): If you are gay then you can't change it, and those who say you can are either in denial or don't know what they are talking about.
Instead of hopelessly trying to change it would be more worthwhile to work on accepting that you are gay and that is the way it is.
If you are not sure then work it out. Do you have real sexual attraction to men, women or both? If it is just men that you find sexually attractive then you are gay, and there is nothing wrong with that.
Your wanting to not be gay won't change anything.
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (15 February 2009):
you are who you are babe, we can't change that. All i can say to you is that our sexuality is only a small part of who we are. The person you are is so much more important. People are not judge as good people just because they're straight. I have never heard anyone say oh he's great he's straight. It's you, the person people like not who you choose to sleep with.
i wish you happiness
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Lol well you can't really change what you are I guess.... when I was younger like around 5 - 10? I kept having crushes on both genders and I didn't even noe what gay bi or straight was back then. I'm seventeen and still not really sure about myself but I guess if anyone asks I'd say I'm bi.
If you're gay then you're gay...if you're bi then you're bi...and if you're straight then you're straight xD theres nothing to worry about~ you'll figure it out when you get older. The important thing is to be who you are and to be happy happy happy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): just because you watch gay videos doesn't necessarily mean you're gay.. you're young and you're curious
alot of guys go through this..but they're too embarassed to tlk about it..
you're probly just curious, alot of guys have/had this problem, dont worry bro...wait till you get a little older and you'll find who you are...and people will except you..no matter what your sexuality is.-striaght/gay/bisexual
gudd luck..
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reader, supermum +, writes (14 February 2009):
 watching gay porn doesnt necessarily mean that you are gay, just curious. there is nothing wrong with being gay, but maybe you should take some time out to experiment with these feelings... you cant change who you are, and its best that you embrace it rather than be unhappy for the rest of your life. having said that, you are young, and things may change, you never know, why dont you speak to the lesbian/gay switchboard, or the equivalent in your area? good luck sweetie
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